Articulating Faith Across Generations

Have you noticed how passionate and articulate teenagers can be about anything except their faith?
Eavesdrop on a conversation amongst teenagers and you’ll hear them talking passionately about many things: Friends. Video Games. Relationships. Celebrities. The Environment. School (well, scratch that).
But try to engage many young people in a conversation about faith, and you may as well prepare yourself for blank stares.
Have you noticed how passionate and articulate adults can be about anything except their faith? Friends, Family, Work, and even Politics are all fair game. Yet try to engage many church-going adults in conversations about faith and you may as well prepare yourself for blank stares. Coincidence?

A group of Anglican and Lutheran youth from Winnipeg attend the Canadian Lutheran Anglican Youth Gathering in Kamloops in August (CLAY)
A group of Anglican and Lutheran youth from Winnipeg attend the Canadian Lutheran Anglican Youth Gathering in Kamloops in August (CLAY)

In her challenging new book, Almost Christian, Princeton scholar Kenda Creasy Dean writes, “Since the religious and spiritual choices of teenagers echo, with astonishing clarity, the religious and spiritual choices of the adults who love them, lackadaisical faith is not young people’s issue, but ours.” If youth ministry is struggling in our churches, we all have some work to do, together.
Across the Anglican Church, we spend a great deal of time talking about the importance of youth ministry. For some of us, this is about the future of the church. We want our tradition to continue, our buildings to stand strong, and our community presence to last a long time. We remember the times when we were younger, the relationships we had, and the role the church played in our own youth. We recall large Sunday schools and church picnics.
Sometimes, we focus on technique. What will keep young people interested? What will attract them? We’re concerned for the future of the Church, and rightly so. But sometimes we’re just spinning our wheels. Sometimes we spend far more time trying to find the latest tricks and techniques than we do remembering what brings us together in the first place. Sometimes we forget God’s story, into which we have all been invited.
We are created in God’s own image. We are a called-out people who follow Jesus in proclaiming God’s upside-down kingdom to the world. This gospel is astounding good news. Yet we struggle to communicate that sense of awe and wonder with one another. Can we articulate what it means for us to be a part of God’s family? If we cannot, then how will we communicate the importance of our Christian faith and Anglican tradition to our children?
Dean goes on to share four significant traits that teens committed to their Christian faith hold in common:
1) A personal story about God they can share,
2) A deep connection to a faith community,
3) A sense of purpose,
4) A sense of hope about their future.
Yet these things are as important for adults as they are for teenagers. Dean continues: “If teenagers lack an articulate faith, it may be because the faith we show them is too spineless to merit much in the way of conversation.” As a Church, if we’re to get this youth ministry thing right, we too will need to develop the traits Dean speaks about. The research is nearly unanimous: parents matter most in shaping the religious lives of their children.
If youth ministry is important to us, we will find the words and ways to articulate our own stories about God. We will connect more deeply with our faith communities. We will seek to understand our purpose and God’s call on our lives, and we will place our hope in God’s future.
Youth ministry is simpler than we might think, yet it does require something of us. It requires that we share our lives with young people, and that we model in thought, word, and deed what it is we believe. This is something we can do together. Will you join in?
Until recently, Andrew Stephens-Rennie was a member of the National Church’s youth initiatives team. He now spends his time nurturing St. Brigid’s, an emerging congregation of Christ Church Cathedral in Vancouver. This article was previously published on the national church blog, The Community.

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